Passing the "Tell Me More" Test

Establishing a business relationship with a new prospect is a lot like walking on a balance beam. Every single move you make has consequences.

When you execute it flawlessly, you're in a perfect position for your next move. However, any misstep on your part sends you into recovery mode. Sometimes you're able to bounce back, but other times you fall off and are out of the competition. To make it even more challenging, stone-faced judges ruthlessly evaluate how well you execute each move and its level of difficult.

Sounds an awful lot like sales to me! The early stages of the sales process are fraught with difficulties. Prospects assess your every word to determine if it's worth their time to meet with you.

That's why so many sellers get excited when prospective customers say, "Tell me more." It means they've scored a perfect 10 on their first routine - one they've practiced and fine-tuned for months. Then, without thinking, they launch into their second routine. What they don't realize is they have to pass this "Tell Me More" test before they can advance further in the competition.

And it's so darn easy to blow it then.

Recently I worked with a large services firms. Like everyone, they're struggling to crack into new accounts. We worked on crafting strong value propositions, creating enticing voicemail messages and engaging customers in a discussion.

I could tell what they'd created would work. So I asked what they'd say if a customer said, "Tell me more."  They replied ...

"Our company has been in business since 1997. It was formed by four separate firms - each with it's own expertise in the communications field - that came together to address the greater challenges faced by global companies today. Since our merger, we've been growing at the rate of 28% annually, now making us the leading provider of these services in the country. We offer a full range of services for all your marketing and communications needs including."

They flunked. Nice answer, but not the right answer. It bores clients. It turns them off. They've heard it a hundred times before. It's all about you, you, you. They could care less about your self-serving pablum.

Okay. Now you're confused. The prospect wanted to know about your company. They asked you to tell them more. And now I'm saying don't. You're probably thinking it's rude not to answer.

I just had that same conversation with a Six Sigma consultant yesterday. He gets really excited when corporate decision makers say tell me more. It's a sure sign to him that they want to know all about his methodology. He responds ...

"The process we use to achieve these results involves pulling together a team of people from several different functions to analyze and address your critical business challenges. First of all, it's absolutely imperative to have senior level commitment in order to make this work. 

"Before any session, I conducted thorough interviews with key executives and other stakeholders. Then, when we get together we use a variety of proven tools such as customer value mapping and process mapping, as well as a systematic, integrated tactical approach to help you achieve objectives ..."

I yawned. My eyes glazed over.  Because I hear things from the customer's perspective, it was painful for me to listen to.  "Stop, stop," I cried. "It's not what they want to hear."

He was confused. They'd wanted to learn more and so he'd explained his process to them. But he was also a "root cause" kind of guy and, since the response he was getting wasn't spectacular he was open to suggestions. Here's what I told him.

When you're in the early stages of working with a prospective customer, the answer to "Tell me more" is not an overview of your firm. Nor is it a description of your process or methodology. Nor is it a request for more in-depth information about your products.

The people you're talking to are sitting at their desks struggling to get everything done with fewer resources and in less time. It's an impossible, never-ending task with no relief in sight. So that's what you focus on - the challenges or issues your product or service addresses.

In responding to them, your primary goals are to develop your credibility as someone who is intimately familiar with the issues they face and to demonstrate your ability to deliver results. You do this by:

• Expanding on how tough it is for companies to achieve their objectives using outdated systems or processes. Talk about all difficulties that arise, the bottlenecks and the workarounds, the frustrations. Mention the ramifications on other areas in their business.

• Sharing a story about a particular customer you recently worked with, how they were doing things when you initially started working together, the problems they faced and the impact of these problems on their business. Then briefly summarize the outcomes.

• Then you wrap it up by asking a question that engages your prospect in discussing the issue in greater depth.

For example, if you say, "Tell me more" to me, I'll respond:

"The biggest challenges facing sellers today is cracking into corporate accounts. Decision makers never answer their phone. They roll all calls to voicemail and they never call anyone back. Most all direct mail goes into the trash and emails from strangers are considered spam.

"You may have the greatest product or service in the world, but if your people can't get their foot in the door, it's all academic. Most sellers I work with are extremely discouraged. They've tried everything they know, but it's not working. I help them figure out what it takes to succeed in this crazy business environment.

How big of an issue is this for your company?"

That's what you need to say to pass the "Tell Me More" Test. Those words don't just roll off your tongue without thinking though. You need to practice and prepare like everything depends on it - because it does.

Your prospect is the ultimate judge of the effectiveness of your "tell me more" response. If you don't advance to the next step, your routine needs more fine-tuning. When you do get that next meeting set up, you'll know you scored a perfect 10.

Comments

[Fred Barnes]

What a GREAT article Jill... perfect "timing" for me. I say that because yesterday I really failed the "Tell Me More" test. I knew better, yet when the question hit me from a potential new client, I took the bait and went into a description of Distinction's presentation skills workshop (one-day, small group, each person is videotaped 5 times and so forth). It would have been so much more powerful to have a "Tell Me More" script (and use it in an un-scripted way).

So here is my new script (I used one of yours as a template):
_____________________________

"One of the biggest challenges for companies today is they invest literally thousands of dollars to get their Sales and Marketing teams in front of valuable prospects. Unfortunately, many teams aren’t fully prepared to leverage that critical 60-minute.

You may have the greatest product or service in the world, but if your people can’t communicate its value, it’s all academic. Rote delivery approaches and ineffective interpersonal skills create missed opportunities that can drive sales management up the wall.

We help your people tell a more compelling business story to capitalize on high-stakes, high-profile business opportunities.

How big of an issue is this for your company?”
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I got a chance to use this yesterday with a different person, and it worked perfect... got THEM talking instead of me. Thanks Jill.

Fred Barnes
Distinction Communication

[Robert Lehrer]

You've written many useful articles Jill, but this is your most powerful one. It caused me to think about the many ways that we as salespeople are focused on ourselves rather than the needs of the prospect. It reinforced my opinion that prospects don't give a #@$& about us; they care about what we can do for them.

[Lena L. West]

Jill!

What can I say?! Again, great content from you. I've already used your "Tell Me More" solution on a conversation I had with a law firm yesterday. He was so intrigued that he now wants me to outline a presentation to give to his clients! Who knew!

When I speak about web site strategies, I constantly tell people, "No one cares about you!" And, I *still* found myself falling into the trap of talking about my company history after hearing, "Tell Me More"! I thought I knew better!

Jill, on your worst day, you're better than most people on their best day!

Keep up the great work!

Lena L. West
http://www.TechnologyDiet.com

[Unity]

I've already used your "Tell Me More" solution on a conversation I had with a law firm today and it worked perfect.thanks

[Poul Anderson]

Great post. Unfortunately, our credibility is lowest in the areas that we feel most confident to speak about ourselves and our solutions. May be we should stop speaking and start listening. Let the customer set the tone for the dialogue and determine what grade level we should converse at. Our credibility will rise as we guide them through a discussion that emphasizes their existing concerns -- assuming they have them.
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[Agentbuilder]

Very true, Like the article

Steph.

[askmaxim]

Hi again, Jill - and the commentators,
After years of struggling alone to open up some accounts I now hear voices nearby!
By the way, how are you generally called: a salesforce contractor, a sales broker..? Your customers outsource/subcontract their sales to you? Once you won an account, do you later sell them other things/services from other vendors? (Is it appropriate to ask this here? If something is wrong -please forgive me - like I said above, just emerged from a desert after years of wandering alone.)